Dating is becoming more common day by day. Lot of dating app helps you to get right person for date instantly.
Meeting a unknown person first time make us nervous . As said first impression in the last impression so it is important to make your first impression right. Here are certain tips that make you look more confident and increase your self esteem for first date.
Clothes
Wear something comfortable
Avoid wearing somethings that is too flaunty and sexy. You are on your first date with complete stranger this is your first chance to know him/her. So our advice is to wear something that is modest and comfortable. This helps you to look comfortable and also weed out the person who is not truly interested in you.
Do not buy new clothes
Wearing a new clothes is like taking risk. So wear something that you already have and you know that you will be comfortable in it.
Dress is a reflection
Dress is a reflection of what you are if you will not wear something comfortable in may decrease your self esteem. So just dress to reflect who you are and make you feel confident .
Conversation
Avoid talking too much about yourself
You are on a date with a stranger and if you only talk about yourself like I like this, I like that this will make you look self obsessed.
Avoid talking about ex
Never bring your ex in conversation as he may miss understand that you still have feelings for him/her and you are still interested in your ex.
Do not interview him
Do not ask so many question .Just simply pick you a topic and have a mutual conversation.
Avoid argument
Do not argue with person on your first date .Your date may assume that you are rude.
Talk less about future
Never discuss about future like marriages and stuff as it he/ she may feel that you are desperate for marriage.
Do not be too artificial
Your words represent your thoughts, values and your personality . So avoid pretending that you know everything . If you do not know about topic just listen to other person . Never talk in fake accent it make you look stupid.
Do not stay quiet, people like to have great conversation.
Avoid doing this
Do not check your phone or social media
Do not click selfie.
Do not click pictures of food.
Things to do before going.
Double check the timing and make sure you reach on time.
Double check the location.
If you are going to restaurant check it online first. This will help you to know menu and review of the place.
Always take some extra money with you.
On date
Try to stay calm and confident.
Do no pretend anything just be yourself.
Avoid getting physically involve on first date.
Try to know more about each other.
Do not try to prove anything like I m rich, I m funny, I m intelligent.
Never say anything like you know I m so funny or I m so intelligent. let the other person guess your positive traits.
So here are advice for your first date. I hope this help you to make excellent first impression . Be humble , be confident and be you . make sure to dress right and wear comfortable footwear. keep in mind all this tip and just be natural .All the best from our side.
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